1. We are always talking about the tradition of old kingdoms that why
“King’s son was next king”
We are thinking that it was a wrong tradition. But according to me, it was right to some extent at that period. if blacksmiths' son has given the position of the king, the whole kingdom would be destroyed because he was unaware of the laws of administration of kingdom as he wasn't able to know about administration due to the lack of sources. If we talk about the king's son he was also unaware of the knowledge of administration but the thing which was differentiating the blacksmith's son and king's son was that the king's son was experienced because his father was king and he was learning from his father that how administration runs.
This tradition has become a problem now because of some cheaters. As education spreads and everyone is civilized now the deserving man/woman will be king/admiral.
2.Why we the Kashmiri peoples don’t achieve success as the peoples of other countries achieve.
The main reason for this is that we are underestimating ourselves i.e. The God has made us with equal potential but the difference is at intentions or opinions. The one who is with good intentions will always succeed in life. The peoples with good intentions are not underestimating themselves because they believe that God has made human beings with a superpower as God says human beings are the most powerful creation among all my creations and the peoples of developed countries belief in this thought. This is one reason why we are lagging from developed countries. We should not underestimate ourselves but we have to believe in this that we are the best creations of God.
3.Why the trend of becoming a doctor or engineer only?
we the students especially Kashmiri students are facing pressure situations after qualifying 12th standard exams because everyone is aiming to qualify the entrance exam and as we know every student is not qualifying because students after qualifying 12th standard exams put themselves in acute pressure and they never get qualified i.e. students get tensed because no one has never told them that the world is more diverse. At least 10 lac students are appearing in the entrance exam but only 10-20 thousand get selected. The students who believe that everyone will not be a doctor or engineer but we have to try hard rest is in the hands of God. Those students who are preparing with this thought have more chances to crack the exam because they knew that life can also liven without being a doctor or engineer and they are preparing without any tense.
4.Role of parents in the life of children.
The parents play the most important role in the success of children because parents are the early detectors of the good or bad characters of their children. Initially, the parents have the responsibility to teach their children how to differentiate good and bad things properly and how to compromise with the circumstances of life. If any child got involved in bad things, parents have the responsibility to make the solution as early as possible because one can get rid of bad things/habits in the early stage.
5.Different types of ideologies.
The opinions or ideologies of different peoples are different. It depends upon the interest of peoples, in which they are interested they like that Example: you tuber has uploaded a video about the tradition of a nation but he has got likes as well as dislikes .both the liker and as well as dislikes are right but the difference is at interest likers are interested in the tradition but dislikers are not. As Mirza Galib has said> “we were good in the ideologies of some peoples and were bad in the ideologies of some peoples, the one who was with good ideology thinks good about us and the one who was with bad ideology thinks bad''
So we should not try to make ourselves best for the world because different peoples have different types of ideologies and we will never achieve that motive of being good in front of peoples. We have to make ourselves best for the sake of God then we will achieve our desires in our lives otherwise our lives will run out in becoming good in the viewpoint of the world and eventually we will not succeed in it because peoples have different ideologies and someone will like you but everyone will not.
6. What matters knowledge or percentage?
we are always talking about the grades/marks and we are thinking that the high scorer is an intelligent student.
According to me, the high scorer is not always intelligent. My point of view on the intelligence is that intelligence doesn’t mean you are learning the questions or reading books, anything which is written in books is not natural it is thinking or concepts of someone’s brain e.g. if we are reading biology book it is not natural but it is the work of biologist. So if someone remembers all the concepts of biology that are written in the book, he/she is not intelligent because he /she induced someone’s thinking’s/concept into his/her brain and anyone can do this, it is not something special. The one who is getting the concepts from his/her brain to some extent is an intelligent student. I am not thinking that we should not read books but we should get the direction from books and should not become dependent on books. Example: Newton is one of the greatest scientists and he gave a lot of laws. Did you know how he gave the laws and become the greatest scientist? Because he was respecting his mind as he was not always following the books, he was following his mind. Anything which was striking in his mind he was thinking of it and was working on it, not on someone's concepts but he was working on his own concepts and he became the great NEWTON. Hence we should give respect to our minds and work on its concepts and should get help from books or someone's mindset but not becoming dependent on them.
7.why some are interested and some aren't?
As we are always talking about our interest in our profession or studies, some people are interested and some aren't. It is the decision that we have to make right during the selection of our profession or studies. According to me when we are studying some subjects or doing some work, it is someone’s concepts that we are inducing into our brain. If our brain compromises with these concepts then it became our passion. The interest that we were lacking from other professions or studies is due to our mind is not able to compromise with these concepts because different minds have different thinking's. When we choose our profession/studies as our passion then it is easy for us to enjoy our life.
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